Women..

Is it really necessary for a girl to close one eye..

And so I asked my dad, if it is ok for a married man to visit those sleazy places. He say it depend on the line of work. And visiting sleazy pubs doesnt mean that he will have to slp with the girls there. Of cos it still comes down to the key word "trust". In which, trust is earned n not given. So yeap..

I have my own set of relationship beliefs.. Bottom line is that I dont wan to be the girl to wait at home and not knowing the wherebout of my partner. I dont wan to know things from a third person.. I dont control, i just want to know.. Its not difficult isnt it?

It pains me knowing that my twin is going thru this and i dont know what to do to help becos im nt married or rather im nt even in a relationship. So who am i to give advice?

Trust n faith

The moment that you start questioning a person's genuineness is the moment that you should do yourself a favor & cut them out of your life.

I.need.a.hug

Dont wan to know, dont wan to ask because i dont wan to care.

When you stop caring, you stop hurting.

Top 5 regrets

Bronnie Ware, a nurse who works with the dying, has recorded the top five regrets people have on their deathbeds.

1. "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." Bronnie notes that most people felt they wasted their healthy youths, and were remorseful for not taking advantage of the things they were able to do.

2. "I wish I hadn't worked so hard." Ware says she heard this from every male patient she nursed. Since her patients tend to be from an older generation where many women didn't work, it's not surprising.

3. " I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings." Apparently some of Bronnie's patients became ill from resentment and anger they had from unexpressed feelings. And "as a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming."

4. "I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends." Many patients regretted losing touch with good friends, who they were unable to track down and contact in their final days.

5. "I wish that I had let myself be happier." While letting oneself be happy should be easy, work, relationships and general life can bring us down. Sometimes it's worth stepping back and examining what's actually worth getting upset over. 

Yet another realization

I was off to the gym. And as i was rushing for time, i reached for the nearest pair in the shoe cabinet. the hot pink pretty asics running shoes..

I knew the pair of shoes were a tad small but i didn quite care.. It was the last pair in the store and i really liked it.

My toes were squashed and painful at the end of the gym session.

In a nut shell, u can by all means squeeze your size 7 feet into a size 6.5 shoes. But at the end of the day it will just hurt ur feet.. And you will be the one hurting..

Fall in love whn u r ready, not whn u r lonely..

Better to be alone, than with the wrong guy isnt it?

Afterall if something is meant to be, it will happen. At the right time, w the right one and for the right best reason..

Choose wisely.

A first..

A guy who can cook, is equally sexy as a guy who plays bball.

Sexy...

Love is like a rose..

Whn you have it in your grasp, you have to bare the thorns.

Needs to be more emotional connected, just slighty perhaps.

My wisdom tooth is hurting the hell out of me, and so is my inflammed throat.

Phobia

Philophobia: Fear of falling in love or being in love.

Maybe?

Tough week and its only tuesday.. Suffered a serious case of food allergy on sunday. Freaked out when it spreaded to my face. A really painful jab and the hives are more or less gone.

Been really weak recently, 3 doc visits in a month.. Im sure the doctor recognized me already.

Have been partying the past few mths, time to take a break again. No more festive season as an excuse:p

Reminders

Don’t be exclusive unless he is too, if you aren’t his one and only then don’t make him yours. Keep your options open.

Dont give more than u receive.

Don’t be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

"Another one of those things that sounds obvious, but we often forget when we’re caught up in the turmoils of our relationships.  Don’t date someone who doesn’t want to be with you.  The person you are with should always, ALWAYS want you by their side.  Not only when things are good, and not only when things are convenient.  If there is any situation where the boy you date indicates that you are not his best alternative, kick him to the curb.  I guarantee that there is someone else who would love to have you in his company."

We Three (my echo, my shadow and me)

I don't quite like the person i've became lately, or i think i've become..

Those values that i used to stand strong and practiced are being stacked away now. Maybe its time to rethink about the beliefs i used to hold firmly.

A piece of mind...

Doesnt it hurt when your friend do shit to you ,esp friend whom u tot u knew for a long time(or so i thought i did). Make it double if its someone who was once your dearest bestest friend and wait.. not that i didn express my "uncomfortability" before. But u did it anyway. Its not the boy tt screw us up, its u that screw this up. You can choose to be in denial, you can choose to not remember..

But oh well, enough said. Thanks but no thanks, i think dont need such friend.

And so they say, life is about making choices.

I ought to stop thinking so much, quit over analyzing things and just concentrate on being the happy jessamine.

Maybe I've have learnt to let go, learnt to forgive. Or maybe its just me getting numb, getting used to it... And so i wonder...

Lesson 101

I have learnt that people come and go.