The more you expect, the more disappointed you will be.

The higher you aim, the higher the fall, which is why I try not to aim very high, or expect a lot, because I know that chances are I'm simply going to be disappointed.

The bottom line is, always expect the worse and you will not never be disappointed.

Get to know yourself better

Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You try to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

because sometimes hearts are broken by words left unspoken

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heart beat, or will stay awake to watch you sleep, wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you’re just in t shirt n shorts, who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who thinks that you’re just as pretty without make-up on, one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you…The one who turns to his friends with a smile and says, “She’s the one!”

All I want is just one guy, to prove that they’re not all the same. Someone to change my perception of love, someone to prove me that happy ending do exist. Strong as i can look, naive i am.

Dont look back, you're not going that way.

A friend of mine pasted me this link. And its pretty good. Everything it says, touches every corner of my heart. Do take a look, u will not regret.

u can have all the people in the world, and still feel empty

My gastric pain is excruciating. But deep inside me i was wondering tt maybe i like this pain. Maybe i wanted it this way. Because without this pain, i wouldnt feel real, wouldnt feel alive.

A very unusual, absurd feeling.

Have you ever been surrounded by a lot of people and yet you still feel lonely? I have and it was not a good feeling to be in. Im better these days, but once a while, the feeling comes back. Thats when i get all cranky and sensitive=(

Or maybe its just me pms-ing? Its a little too early to be pms-ing thou.

Good sunday.

Despite some gastric issue, it was a awesome sunday. Esp since I had all my fav food, all in one day.

1.)Dipping ramen
2.)Cheesecake
3.)Foie Gras sandwiches
4.)Strawberry shaved ice
5.)Nachos

Met up with damien n anna. Forced damien to speak in our native singaporean language and scolding hokkien vulgarities in his british accent. pure bitchiness.

To my lovely stephy and all my fav girls=)

Because every relationship could end tomorrow. This in no way means that it isnt good for as long as it does last, does it? What im trying to say, is that love is a risk and its something thats usually worth taking. Or at least thats my mantra.

I believe that any thing could happen at any moment thus i always do my best to live each day to its bestest, just so I can go to sleep with no regrets just in case I don’t wake up tomorrow, thats fine because at least i will have enjoyed life to the best.

Enjoy your relationship, while you still have it! Protect yourself the best you can, but once that urge to love is there, and you have a good guy to love you back, don’t hold back, give it your all. Love with no regrets.

Impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did
And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did
And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof top
Write it on the sky love
All we had is gone now
Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know
Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love is worst
Empty promises will wear
I know (i know)
And know when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

My Fav

Have you ever met someone and wish "if only i met them earlier". However, come to think about it, IF you met him/her earlier, things might not be the same.


Audrey, my fav girl. My favouritest of them all.


Morven, my fav girl's guy. And my fav guy too=)

And together they make my topsy turvy world straight. They keeps me sane, keep me in place and tell me things that i hate. Yet i know that they will be there to catch me, if i fall.

I love them=)

Half empty or half full?

I agree that optimism can be rlly great and it often results in a happier life, in most situation that is. Cause basically being an optimistic nature also gives more positive reactions by others. But in other cases you also have to calculate with the worst case. It can be confusing at first. Or at least i was confused with the whole half empty half full therory. But i realized that if one look at it from a completely different direction. Is it always a bad thing to see the glass as half empty? Not so. Suppose such a perception motivates you to fill the glass whereas seeing it as half full leads to complacency. Focusing on the lack in one's life can sometimes be a driving force for success. 想通了!!!!