♥流浪人之处【新生活】

1.生活里，有很多转瞬即逝，像在车站的告别，刚刚还相互拥抱，转眼已各自天涯。很多时候，你不懂，我也不懂，也许就这样，说着说着就变了，听着听着就倦了，看着看着就厌了，跟着跟着就慢了，走着走着就散了，爱着爱着就淡了，想着想着就算了。­

2.其时，我很累了，我习惯假装坚强，习惯了一个人面对所有，我不知道自己到底想怎么样。有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话，可以很放肆的，可是却没有人知道，那不过是伪装，很刻意的伪装；我可以让自己很快乐很快乐，可是却找不到快乐的源头，只是傻笑。­

3. 有时候，莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆。有时候，夜深人静，突然觉得不是睡不着，而是固执地不想睡。有时候，听到一首歌，就会 突然想起一个人。有时候，别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。------ 丢了的自己，只能慢慢捡回来。

4. 没有人有耐心听你讲完自己的故事，因为每个人都有自己的话要说；没有人喜欢听你抱怨生活，因为每个人都有自己的苦痛；世人多半寂寞，这世界愿意倾听，习惯 沉默的人，难得几个。------ 我再也不想对别人提起自己的过往，那些挣扎在梦魇中的寂寞，荒芜，还是交给时间，慢慢淡漠。­

5.假如爱情可以解释，誓言可以修改。假如，你我的相遇，可以重新安排。那么，生活就会比较容易。假如有一天，我终于能将你忘记。然而，这不是随便传说的故事，也不是明天才要上演的戏剧，我无法找出原稿将你一笔抹去。­

6. 有人告诉我，鱼的记忆只有7秒，7秒之后它就不记得过去的事情，一切又都变成新的。所以，在那小小鱼缸里的鱼儿，永远不会感到无聊。我宁愿是条鱼，7秒一 过就什么都忘记，曾经遇到的人，曾经做过的事，都可以烟消云散。可我不是鱼，无法忘记我爱的人，无法忘记牵挂的苦，无法忘记相思的痛；无法忘记我的失败、 亲人的误解……

7 一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌。最后你会发现，原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的很难忘记。­

8.所谓练习微笑，不是机械地挪动你的面部表情，而是努力地改变你的心态，调节你的心情。学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。这样，阳光就会流进心里来，驱走恐惧，驱走黑暗，驱走所有­……

9.心理学家推荐的能让你开心的事：每天拍几张照片；看快乐的电影；在周末的白日清晨做梦；给朋友寄卡片；在水边散步；偶尔吃一顿大餐；每星期坚持做一次锻炼；一边开车，一边大声歌唱；一边喝咖啡，一边读小说；一边打电话，一边信手涂鸦；一边洗澡，一边唱歌。

10.你见，或者不见我，我就在那里，不悲不喜；你念，或者不念我，情就在那里，不来不去；你爱，或者不爱我，爱就在那里，不增不减；你跟，或者不跟我，我的手就在你的手里，不舍不弃。------ 来我的怀里，或者让我住进你的心里，默然相爱，寂静欢喜。

11.曾经在某一个瞬间，我们以为自己长大了，有一天，我们终于发现，长大的含义除了欲望还有勇气和坚强，以及某种必须的牺牲。------ 在生活的面前我们还都是孩子，其实我们从未长大还不懂得爱和被爱。­因为爱过，所以慈悲；因为懂得，所以宽容。

12.一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

13.有些伤口，时间久了就会慢慢长好；有些委屈，受过了想通了也就释然了；有些伤痛，忍过了疼久了也成习惯了……然而却在很多孤独的瞬间，又重新涌上心头。------ 其实，有些藏在心底的话 ，并不是故意要去隐瞒，只是，并不是所有的疼痛，都可以呐喊。


14. 面对让自己失败的人，最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡和不屑，也应该感激他们，感激他们给我的人生上了一课，只是学费高了些，干嘛花力气去恨一 些对自己未来的人生从此不再相干的人，恨，只能恨自己，恨自己的孤傲、自闭，一时冲动是你失败的根源，知道路线错了，停止就是前进，冷静；思考；检讨自 己……然后，从头再来！

15.遇到一件事，如果你 ------ 喜欢它，那么享受它；不喜欢，那么避开它；避不开，那么改变它；改不了，那么接受它；接受不下，那么处理它；难以处理，那么就放下它。------ 其实，人最难的是“放下”。放下了，就释然了。­

16.可以一个人唱歌，一个人喝咖啡，一个人涂鸦，一个人旅行，一个人逛大街，一个人在雨中漫步，一个人听音乐，一个人自言自语，一个人发呆，一个人寂寞，一个人看电视，一个人翻杂志...... 只有爱，是自己一个人做不到的。­

17.人一简单就快乐，一世故就变老。

18.感情再深，恩义再浓的朋友，天涯远隔，情义，终也慢慢疏淡。------ 不是说彼此的心变了，也不是说不再当对方是朋友，只是，远在天涯，喜怒哀乐不能共享。------ 原来，我们已是遥远得只剩下问候，问候还是好的，至少我们不曾把彼此忘记。

19.世界上最凄绝的距离是两个人本来距离很远，互不相识，忽然有一天，他们相识，相爱，距离变得很近。然后有一天，不再相爱了，本来很近的两个人，变得很远，甚至比以前更远。

20.如果你看到面前的阴影，别怕，那是因为你的背后有阳光。

Some food for thought. Enjoy~

goodbye singapore and hello philipine

see you when I'm back on nye:)

Honey, dont throw stone. n dont push ur luck.

Cos i cant control wad others say.. but at least i know i can control how i react(or dont react) and feel about them. She can say whadever she like, as the saying goes "People who live in glass houses should not throw stones".

and well, im damn sure im not gonna become a victim of this kind of stupidity, childish and small-mindedness.

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你想要的我却不能够给你我全部；
我能给的却又不是你想要拥有的

Not exactly a fan of chinese music. But i happened to chance upon this song(i think its quite an old song alrdy) on youtube recently, and have been hooked ever since. The lyrics are so straight to the heart, so true, so meaningful.

But ultimately, thanks for being there when im.. Ermm.. Hiding in the toilet:x

The simplest thing.

The most ridiculously long yet extremely enjoyable conversation about the most random things imaginable=D

Im back(sorta)

I know, i know. I have been missing in action and well. Truth to be told, i have been trying to find myself back. Not the party me. I really had a hard time figuring out where to go(aside from zouk). Then after last weekend, i realized. It doesnt exactly matter where one go, for what matters is the company! For instance, last fri. I met up with this poly friend of mine. we went for chinese food followed by some chill out session at wala. I was home by midnight! As for sat, i stayed home the entire day. Yet i wasnt bored, and yes not at all. We talked, from 10pm to 7am the next day. Other than feeling friggin tired, i was happy.

All i can say is that things are kinda taking its turn. "Whatever happen, happens for a reason" so im gonna just go with the flow and maybe ride on the wave.

& be thankful for what I've got. also to lose the weight tt i've gained. MUAHAHHAHAA...

=D

WOW..

Forget the past that made you cry and start focusing on the phuture(sorry i cant help it)future that make you smile.

And oh! My Mobile bill for the month of Oct came up to $168.. yeahh, how auspicious NOT. Who the hell did i even text.. seriously...

Wont stop, cant stop

And despite it all, he still mean the world to her, she just kept it all in her. But deep inside, she will drop everything just to be by his side. She will go all out to brighten his day, even if she can't even brighten her own.

She never stopped loving him, she just temporarily stopped showing it.

Sick n bored

Unwell

Awesome, at this critical make it or break it point of time. My body is down. Fever, running nose and the main culprit, tonsillitis. What a pain in the ass and damn!

Dr Lucas, here i come!

Cause life's too short to dwell on the unchangeable.

Life is full of disappointments and people you trusted will sooner or later let you down. I've learned that often those you love will love someone else and there's only one way to fall. Often fast and hard. I've learned that everything can change in a blink of eye and tears often come involuntarily. I've learned crying can make us stronger and there is can never be too much love to go around. Lastly, I've found that every time you give someone a piece of your heart, it's a piece that you will never get back.

I dunno when and I dunno how. But i know that we won't ever really be close again and someday, you and i will stop talking. And eventually, we will grow apart. Im not giving up, Im just accepting tt things just werent meant to be or supposed to be. I have reached a point where im tired of chasing and trying to fix things.

I really never wanted to leave, but you have never ever gave me a reason to stay.

A promise is a comfort for a fool

I have came to realize that u r just a guy, a special one maybe, but u r not mine at the end of the day. and i dont need to do things to make u love me again. cos if u wanted to, u would. Maybe this time.. we r really going back to our lives, separate from each other. And maybe one day when you see me, when I see you, we will pretend we dont know that at one time we were lovers.

You've clearly made your point when u chose partying instead of spending my 21st bday w me. You know what is the funny part? The girl wasnt the one who changed this time, the guy did.

And this is prove.

Busy weekend

Suffering from the cough of the yr=(( Nonetheless it didnt quite affect the weekend activities. Velvet on fri, was half smashed. belated bday celebration w Briana jie jie n Ron kor kor on sat! "Takers" w ivan and Ipuddo ramen-ed with the besties couple(Morv n Aud) on sunday.

Thanks Ron n Briana jie for the red packet.. many thanks and much appreciated=) And Paul smith perfume is my new love=) Thank u besties<3

*cough cough cough cough x infinity

White lie

noun. An often trivial, diplomatic or well-intentioned untruthful statement, often with the further intention to maintain a secret or reputation, protect someone's feelings.

Love is all we need

Ok, my birthday is officially over. Had a blast for my 21st! Thanks everyone who really make the effort to make the whole celebration works.

Now i present you my fav ppl(my gf, my bffs, my confidants) on the planet:

Baby Audrey.

My three girls=)

Morven and my fav aunt!!!!!!!